Turning 30? It’s the perfect time for your twenties to rest, and the best way to end it is with a creative Death to My 20s Party. Let’s do a “funeral” for all the weird, sometimes childish, and embarrassing moments that got you here at 30 and mourn for the end of your reckless years.
If you don’t know how to throw his hilariously dramatic party, don’t worry because CustomAny has got all the ideas you need. From killer decorations to laugh-out-loud games, let’s make this birthday as fun and ridiculous as possible!
What is a “Death to My 20s” party
A Death to My 20s Party is a humorous and creative way to mark the end of your twenties and celebrate the start of your thirties. The theme is all about a symbolic “death” of your twenties years, saying goodbye to the foolish moments in a playful funeral-inspired vibe.
Why is this theme so interesting and exceptional?
- It’s so much fun: It’s another way of dreading turning 30 in a humorous way by celebrating as a funeral.
- It’s creative: Not like an ordinary birthday, in this party, you can do whatever you like to make the decoration, outfits, birthday cake, food and drinks to match a “funeral theme”.
- It’s about valuing a complex of mixed feelings and emotions: Many people feel a mix of emotions about leaving their twenties and welcome thirties. A Death to My 20s Party allows them to reflect on the past while welcoming the future, surrounded by friends and laughter. It’s the perfect way to start the thirties with humor and let go of the negative feelings.
How to Throw a Super Fun Killer Death to My 20s Party
We won’t wait any longer. Let’s jump to the main section of this article: how to throw a Death to My 20s Party as a fun way to mark the end of your twenties. From the invites to the activities, you will discover 40 ideas for making the celebration a killer one.
Creative Invitation Ideas
A Death to My 20s Party starts with the perfect invitations. We have some ideas for you:
1. Obituary-style invitations
You can design your invites as mock obituaries for your twenties with important milestones marked in humorous ways like “survived countless coffee-fueled nights” or “first time fell for a jerk”,…
2. Skull and crossbones designs
You can choose a bold, “deadly” look for the invitations with skull and crossbones graphics. These ideas are all about fun and spooky, perfect for this themed party.
For this invitation idea, die cut stickers can add a standout element. These custom-shaped stickers are ideal for such deadly decorative elements. You can also use them for sealing envelopes to level up your invites’ overall look.
Moreover, their crisp edges, vibrant colors, and durability make them a must have not only for the invitations but also as a fun keepsake for guests after your party.
3. Black-and-white funeral invitations
If you like something elegant, consider a formal invite in black and white. This tone mimics traditional funeral announcements. The suitable fonts will be something gothic; and you should use dark borders as additional decorative patterns.
4. DIY tombstone cards
How about tombstone-shaped invitations? Add funny phrases about your 20s, something like “RIP 20s: Lived Fast, Ate Pizza Faster.”
5. Digital Coffin E-vites
An animated invitation is also a great idea. We recommend coffin-themed e-vites with graphics of a closing coffin, which instantly get whoever receives them a mood for a humorous party.
Spooky and Fun Decorations
Decorations are the most important key in setting the mood for your Death to My 20s Party. Let’s find out the way to use the most of your creativity:
6. Coffin-shaped entrance
Welcome guests with a doorway arch shaped like a coffin. Use cardstock or balloons to make this dramatic entrance to allow guests to step into “the funeral of the 20s”.
7. Graveyard-themed backdrop
In the next step, you can create a photo area and decorate it with faux tombstones. Make it look more funeral by featuring funny inscriptions about your twenties, like:
- “RIP late-night snacks”
- “Gone but not forgotten: Netflix marathons”
- …
8. “Funeral for my 20s” banner
Easiest option for decoration? It’s to hang a custom banner that says “Funeral for my 20s” over the main party area.
9. Candles and dim lighting
Use plenty of candles which emit low lighting to give your space a moody and deadly vibe.
10. Black roses and skeleton as party’s centerpieces
Make your party centerpieces much more dramatic with black roses, skeleton figures, or small skull decorations.
11. Chalkboard epitaph wall
Set up a chalkboard where guests can write funny “RIP” notes about your twenties, like “RIP energy to stay up past 12 AM.”
Killer Outfits for Men and Women
What to wear to a Death to my 20s party? Death to my outfits should be a mix of humor, style, and a touch of the macabre.
For women:
12. Black gothic dresses with lace
Lace dresses are the classic spooky look which bring women a dark and dramatic appearance.
13. Skeleton bodysuits
For those who prefer funnier outfits, choose a skeleton bodysuit. This is perfect for a hilarious look while adorning charming curves.
14. Black Leather Jumpsuits with Spiked Accessories
Black leather always gives an edgy and bold feeling, ideal for a fierce, death-inspired look.
For Men:
15. Tailored Black Suits
This is a familiar outfit for funerals: a sharp black suit that keeps your look theme-matching yet perfectly stylish.
16. Skeleton-print shirts paired with black jeans
Casual t-shirts with on-theme prints will give men a relaxed look.
17. Grim Reaper Cloaks with a Prop Scythe
This costume is perfect for a dramatic Death to my 20s party.
Accessories for All:
Accessories are for leveling up your outfit, no matter what you choose to wear.
18. Skull masks or makeup
It’s easy to add a creepy to your outfit with skull-inspired masks or maybe a face paint if you are capable of doing it.
19. Statement jewelry
Consider some statement jewelry like coffin pendants or skull earrings.
20. Themed hats
Top hats or veils will give your outfit extra flair and drama for your Death to My 20s Party.
Jaw-Dropping Birthday Cake Ideas
When it comes to a Death to My 20s Party, the birthday cake should be as creative and dramatic as the rest of the celebration. Here are some ideas to make your cake the center of attention:
21. Tombstone cake
Inscribe the tombstone on the cake with a “RIP 20s” text.
22. Coffin-shaped cake
Create a coffin-shaped cake filled with red velvet, giving a “bloody” surprise when sliced.
23. Black marble cake
This cake can be elegant yet eerie, with black marble frosting and edible skull toppers.
24. Skeleton climbing out of the cake
The spookiest cake idea where you create a skeleton appears to be emerging from the cake—perfect for photos!
25. Graveyard-themed cupcakes
These individual cupcakes can be topped with candy tombstones and edible dirt (crumbled cookies) for a fun, bite-sized treat.
These cake ideas are perfect for adding a bit of spooky fun to your Death to My 20s Party. They’ll not only taste great but also make the occasion memorable for everyone involved.
Delicious Food and Drink Ideas
Besides birthday cake, other food and drinks are a key part of any party, and your Death to My 20s Party is the perfect occasion to get creative.
Food
The food at your Death to My 20s Party is the perfect opportunity to showcase your creativity and commitment to the theme. These spooky, yet delicious options are sure to be a hit:
26. “Death by chocolate” dessert bar
You should serve a combination of chocolate treats like brownies, mousse, and truffles to satisfy any sweet tooth.
27. Skull-shaped cookies
Decorate ordinary cookies with frosting details for a creepy yet tasty snack.
28. Bloody finger hot dogs
For this idea, let’s use hot dogs and ketchup to create the look of “bloody fingers”.
29. Charcuterie coffin
Arrange meats, cheeses, and crackers in a coffin-shaped tray for a dramatic presentation.
30. RIP sandwiches
Use cookie cutters to shape bread into tombstones and layer with your favorite fillings.
Tip: Make your food even more festive by using custom stickers to create toothpick labels. Round corner stickers are perfect for adding fun phrases like “RIP Appetite” or “Deathly Delicious” to each dish. This small touch will tie your Death to My 20s Party theme together while adding a bit of flair to your food display.
Drinks
Drinks are an essential part of any Death to My 20s Party, and they’re a great way to keep the spooky theme alive. Try these ideas:
31. Black Widow Cocktails
A mix of black vodka, cranberry juice, and a touch of dry ice creates a smoky, eerie effect that’s perfect for the occasion.
32. Bloody Mary Bar
Set up a customizable Bloody Mary station with all the fixings, letting guests create their own “bloody” masterpiece.
33. Pitch-Black Punch
Add activated charcoal or black food coloring to your favorite punch recipe for a drink that’s as dark as the night.
34. Coffin Mocktails
Serve alcohol-free drinks garnished with gummy worms, edible bones, or spooky stir sticks for a fun twist.
Pro Tip for you
We highly recommend using UV DTF transfer stickers to label drinkware for an extra touch of creativity. These stickers work best for intricate designs, making them ideal for spooky details like skulls, cobwebs, or RIP signs.
Use phrases like “Cheers to the Afterlife” or “Goodbye, 20s” to your cups and glasses for a cohesive theme.
Transfer stickers are durable and look professional, ensuring your Death to My 20s Party drink station stands out.
Games and Activities
At a Death to My 20s Party, the right games and activities can set the tone for a night of laughter, nostalgia, and maybe even some hilariously spooky competition. Here are some creative ways to get everyone involved and make the celebration unforgettable:
35. Memory Graveyard
Set up faux tombstones and let guests write hilarious or memorable moments from your 20s. It’s a fun way to reflect on the good, the bad, and the downright embarrassing.
36. Pin the Coffin Lid
A spooky twist on the classic “Pin the Tail on the Donkey.” Blindfolded players try to place a coffin lid on the right spot—expect lots of laughs with this one!
37. 30s Wisdom Jar
Provide a jar and notepaper for guests to leave advice or funny predictions for your 30s. It’s a meaningful keepsake you’ll enjoy reading later.
38. Dance with the Dead
Host a dance-off to spooky or nostalgic music. Think “Thriller” vibes mixed with your favorite 20s anthems.
39. “Last Will and Testament” Game
Guests write funny “bequests” of what they’re leaving behind from their 20s—whether it’s bad habits, old styles, or questionable decisions.
40. Best Dressed Contest
Encourage everyone to show off their outfits and award prizes for the spookiest, funniest, or most creative look.
These activities will bring life (ironically) to your Death to My 20s Party!
Let’s party
Throwing a Death to My 20s Party is a fun, creative way to say goodbye to your twenties and embrace the start of your next decade with humor and style. From invitations and decorations to food, drinks, and games, this guide gives you everything you need to plan a memorable celebration.
If you’re looking for more inspiration to keep the party vibes going, check out our other posts on unique, quirky, and fun-themed parties here.
